I mean being socially attractive like a magnet attracts not just physical appearance attractive. You want to attract more business.
If you’re in the business of people, and would you like to attract more people think about this five different areas.
1. Attractive physically
What i mean is to be the best version of you. Working out even if it’s just 20 minutes a day. You’ll think better, you’ll feel better. It’ll give you more confidence and that’ll be very obvious to people that are around you.
2. Take a few minutes and meditate
Make sure you’re quiet here. It slows it down so you’re calm, you’re focused and when it’s go time you’re ready to get to work. It also means get some sleep. Find out what your sleep spot is so get yourself the proper amount of sleep so that you can be at your best when it’s time to work. When you will be quieter and more focused in your perception of your surroundings, you will be more socially attractive. Do not speak too much of yourself.
3. Grow your intellect grow your skills
Work on yourself. Every day you can do something for yourself. For example, instead of watching TV you can open a book. Anything that enriches you and moves you closer to your goals.
4. Grow yourself spiritually
Whatever it is that you believe. For me, I believe in prayer. Spiritually for me means be thankful for the blessing so that I can prepare myself for more blessings. I believe if you do that i think it will make a big difference in the way that you feel.
Another trick i learned and this is great for your emotional side.
Maybe take once a week and reach out to someone that you haven’t spoken to in a long time. Maybe it’s an old high school friend or a long lost cousin. Just reach them out, say hello and reconnect. You can expand your circle of influence that way. It’ll make you feel better as well.
5. Develop your confidence
Have you ever been around someone who’s confident? Because they know where they’re going, they know where they’re headed. That type of confidence is very socially attractive. So it also is success which will help you develop that confidence.
And I’m talking about daily and weekly success that comes from taking the necessary action and getting results. Help build that confidence in what your ultimate objective is and the fact that you’re going to reach that ultimate objective.
Sharpening your skills
Stephen Covey talks about sharpening the saw. That’s what he’s talking about. Spending a little bit of time sharpening your skills so that the time you spend on your business is more productive.
The last thing to remember your mindset is your biggest asset.